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All Girls Need A Sister

I guess there’s always the nunnery.

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Mary Rooke
Jun 13, 2026
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Welcome back to Good Life, a newsletter about navigating our modern culture and staying sane in the process. This week, we discuss how some girls are combating high rent and loneliness in the city that never sleeps.

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We are starting to look at colleges for our oldest daughter. While we still have years before she leaves the house, getting into a good college is becoming increasingly difficult for regular Americans. Now, if she were in a protected class — black, Hispanic, immigrant, gay — I wouldn’t be so worried. But alas, she’s just a regular American who can trace her lineage back to before the American Revolution, so figuring out her future has to start a bit early.

And if it’s not enough to stress about whether or not she’ll get into her top school, I wonder what will happen to her after she gets there. Ideally, I want her to attend a Catholic college where she’ll be among faith-filled students who share similar morals and values. But there is really only one such college in Texas that fits the bill, and more than anything, I don’t want her moving out of state.

So what happens to her if she goes to a … state college? Well, I’ve thought about it, meaning I’ve had a lot of sleepless nights and nightmares about it, and decided to table the worrying for when I get closer to that moment. That was until one of my friends sent a recent Wall Street Journal piece about what women are doing to combat the sky-high rent in New York City. And it got me thinking.

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